What we think of our father
At 5 YEARS – DAD KNOWS EVERYTHING
AT 10 YEARS – MAYBE DAD DOESN’T KNOW
AT 12 YEARS – DAD DOESN’T KNOW
AT 14 YEARS – DAD’S ANNOYING
AT 18 YEARS – WHAT DOES DAD KNOW?
AT 23 YEARS – I KNOW MORE THAN DAD
AT 25 YEARS – DAD SEEMS TO KNOW SOMETHING AFTER ALL
AT 30 YEARS – MAYBE I SHOULD ASK DAD ABOUT THIS
AT 40 YEARS – IT’S AMAZING HOW DAD WENT THROUGH ALL THIS
AT 45 YEARS – DAD HAS BEEN RIGHT ALL ALONG
AT 50 YEARS – IF DAD WAS HERE I COULD HAVE LEARNED A LOT
At 5 Years – Dad Knows Everything
At this tender age, a child views their dad as an all-knowing superhero. Whether it’s fixing a broken toy, answering endless “why” questions, or simply being the strongest person in the world, dad is the ultimate authority and source of wisdom.
At 10 Years – Maybe Dad Doesn’t Know
As the child grows, they start encountering more complex situations and information from school and friends. They begin to see that dad doesn’t have all the answers and might not be as omnipotent as they once thought.
At 12 Years – Dad Doesn’t Know
Entering pre-adolescence, the child becomes more independent and critical. They often think dad is out of touch with their world and interests, leading to the belief that dad is not as knowledgeable as once perceived.
At 14 Years – Dad’s Annoying
Teenage years bring a desire for autonomy and individuality. Dad’s advice and rules can feel restrictive and irritating. The once revered figure is now often seen as a source of frustration.
At 18 Years – What Does Dad Know?
On the brink of adulthood, the young person feels confident in their own understanding of the world. Dad’s experiences and advice might seem outdated or irrelevant to their modern perspective.
At 23 Years – I Know More Than Dad
Fresh out of college or starting a career, the young adult feels they have acquired significant knowledge and skills. They may see themselves as more educated or up-to-date than their dad.
At 25 Years – Dad Seems to Know Something After All
As real-world challenges become more apparent, the young adult starts to appreciate the practical wisdom and life experience that dad has. They might begin to seek dad’s advice more frequently.
At 30 Years – Maybe I Should Ask Dad About This
Facing significant life decisions and responsibilities, the adult realizes the value of dad’s experience. Consulting dad becomes a practical step in navigating complex situations.
At 40 Years – It’s Amazing How Dad Went Through All This
Mid-life brings a deeper understanding of the trials and triumphs dad faced. There’s a newfound respect and admiration for how dad handled similar challenges and responsibilities.
At 45 Years – Dad Has Been Right All Along
With the benefit of hindsight, the adult acknowledges that many of dad’s lessons and pieces of advice were accurate and valuable. There’s often a sense of gratitude and humility in this realization.
At 50 Years – If Dad Was Here, I Could Have Learned a Lot
By this stage, many look back with a sense of longing and regret for the lost opportunities to learn from dad. His wisdom and experiences are missed, highlighting the timeless value of his guidance.